REAL TALK: FOR THEM GUYS! CHECK OUT 10 REASONS WHY YOUR EX DUMPED YOU

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Amazing right? I know you have been dying to know why. Okay lemme break it to you “YOU SUCKED” and by sucked I don’t mean her b**bs, I mean you suck, the other kind of sucked, just admit it. Thank you, let’s move on.

1. YOU ARE BAD IN BED
What!! She never told me! I seriously thought that, am a sex machine. Yeah well Mr. Sex machine, where is your girl now? 80% cause of relationship break ups is bad in bed syndrome. She didn’t say it to your face cause she wants to spare your ego. You wanna get her back, turn on your inner FREAK

2. IT GOT BORING
Dude, women like new things. You think breakfast in bed is romantic, try doing it 7times in a row! You gotta be creative mehn. Make her see the new and exciting parts of you everyday. Keep her in a good suspense and she will never leave you.

3. YOU WERE A JERK
You think you’re “funny,” but she didn’t think that crack you made about her weight was hilarious. You weren’t that nice to her parents, you eat with your mouth open, and when you get drunk with your buddies, you turn into a total pig. She knows you’re a nice guy underneath it all, but there was too much BS in the way to make it worth it.

4. YOU WEREN’T GETTING ANYWHERE
Here are some qualities women like in men: ambitious, driven, goal-oriented. It’s OK if you hit a slump, but if your career hit the skids, and, oh, a year later you aren’t able to bounce back, there’s going to be trouble in this love valley. It’s not what you do, or how much you make, but women dig a man who makes the most of who he is.

5. YOU’RE COMMITMENT-PHOBIC
Couldn’t get monogamous? Wouldn’t move in together? Can’t find the balls to propose? Women seek out security and stability, and there comes a time in every relationship when it’s either, er, do your business or get off the pot. If you couldn’t take things to the next level, you’ve only got yourself to blame for the fact that she walked out the door.

6. SHE’S NOT JUST SO THAT INTO YOU
Hey, we’re not the only ones out there who someone just isn’t that into! Whether the spark died, she wasn’t that into you in the first place but it took her a while to realize it, or she got in a mood, a permanent mood, she may have split because she wasn’t feeling it. Go find someone else who is so into you.

7. A DEALBREAKER SECRET
Sometimes, women hold things back. They don’t disclose everything. They’ve got a secret in their past. She used to be a stripper. She had an abortion. She never got over her ex. For some reason, she couldn’t bring herself to tell you. For her, that’s what stands between you two, and, unable to share who she really is with you, she went in search of someone else to whom she could reveal her true self.

8. SHE MET SOMEONE ELSE
Yeah, it happens, and if he did what a man is supposed to do better than you, in her opinion, she looks at it as trading up. If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em.

9. YOU LET YOURSELF GO
If a guy leaves a girl because she “let herself go,” everyone gets offended. But it’s possible that if you let yourself go, she left you because of it. If she was going to the gym five days a week, and your idea of a workout is lifting the beer from the table to your mouth, it’s possible that, um, your exercise routines were the problem.

10. YOU CHEATED
You slipped once. It happens! You came clean. She forgave you. You even went to couples therapy together. Eventually, you moved beyond it. But … did she? Women never forget anything, and it may be that she was never able to get over it. What can you do? Move on. Try again. Do better next time. You learned something, right?

And that is JOSt what it is!

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